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the hydranchula goes to ireland: part 2

the hyranchula goes to ireland is a series of posts i'm writing during my j term study abroad in dublin, ireland. these posts will look a little different because they will have proper capitalization and pictures because professors like proper capitalization and pictures. please follow me on instagram to see what i'm drinking and eating up to every day.


The airport:

I met Alex at the Addison Red Line stop near my apartment to hail the cab that would take us to the airport. We hugged and screamed like children. It’s like we had too much energy and there was too much excitement; we couldn’t hold it in.

The ride was full of “I can’t wait,” and “I can’t believe we’re doing this,” and more screams. We were prepared. We packed adapters and underwear and we’d had our nails done. Our moms were on the same page about nearly everything we talked about: don’t die, drink water, “Use my credit card if you need to.”

There was a short wait at the Aer Lingus counter check in, a short wait for dinner, and a short wait in the terminal. All of these short waits stacked up to be less time than the flight that brought us to Dublin.

On the plane I sat next to a guy in his early 20s who has dual citizenship in the US and Ireland. He was born in Wisconsin, but moved to Ireland when he was three years old. He currently lives in Belfast. I had no idea where that was, and he told me Belfast is in the north.

“Oh, so Northern Ireland?” In the class leading up to the trip, we were informed that Northern Ireland and Ireland are two different countries. Separated by different currencies and a lot of issues.

“Oh, yeah. Northern Ireland. I always forget that people are very specific about that. I never knew the difference as a kid; everyone was always correcting me.”

This was interesting to me. I assumed he was going to be radical and have a bunch of crazy things to say, but, really, he just ended up being pretty cool. We talked like friends and watched an episode of GIRLS together. Eventually we fell asleep next to each other, but, in that weird it’s-only-okay-on-a-long-flight-kind-of-way, we found ourselves waking up a bit intertwined.


I never asked him his name, which I regret. I’m thinking of attempting a bit of hardcore Facebook stalking, which I think would be creepy if we’d met any other way. We’ll see.


Queueing in the airport. 


Dublin Day 1:

We landed an hour earlier than anticipated. After a short stop in customs, we grabbed our bags and jumped on a bus that brought us right to our hotel. We checked in, threw our bags in the room, and went out in search of breakfast. Since we landed the morning after New Year’s Eve, nearly everything was closed. I was a bit surprised. Restaurants in Chicago would take full advantage of hung over tourists looking to have an IV bag set up full of Bloody Mary or Mimosa. Ireland gave no shits.

We found a tiny café with wifi.

Waitress: “Coffee or tea?”
Me: “Tea, please.”
Alex: “Coffee, please.”
Waitress: “What kind?”
Alex: “Coffee, please.”
Waitress: “No. What kind?”
Alex: “Coffee?”
Waitress: “No, what kind? Cappuccino, espresso, Americano?”
Alex: “… … Americano?”

American drip coffee does not exist in Ireland. Noted.

We both ordered eggs Florentine. I’m not one to write much about food. I love eating, but I don’t care to read or write about it. I want to eat it. But this, this food. It’s like I want to write about it, but I have no words. It’s like I’d never really eaten spinach before. Or eggs. The hollandaise sauce was not as good as my sister’s, but everything else was so good that I’m willing to overlook it.


 


After breakfast, we took a walk through St.Steven’s Green Park, and ended up walking around Grafton St., which is where there’s a lot of shopping. Nothing too extraordinary happened until I’m 80/20 sure that we saw Neville Longbottom come out of the pub we were trying to eat dinner at. Granted, it wasn’t the actual Neville, rather the actor who played him in the Harry Potter movies, but it was a very exciting moment.


St. Steven's Green Park


We had dinner at Quays Irish Restaurant (pronounced like “keys”). We immediately ordered Guinness, which didn’t settle in time for us to be seated, so we abandoned our drinks and scoured the menu for something to eat. I had fish and chips and Alex had a vegetable soup that quickly became our most favorite thing, ever.



We ended our first day in Dublin very tired, but proud that we’d overcome the desire to sleep.

Dublin Day 2:

We booked tickets with Irish Day Tours to go to Cliffs of Moher the night before. The bus left very early, which meant we had to wake up very early, which was zero percent fun. A little stop at McDonald’s where we ordered cheese toasties made the morning a bit more bearable. A cheese toastie is basically two pieces of a thick tortilla/thin naan – esque bread with orange cheeses grilled like a panini. It was good.

With a bit of confusion about where we were supposed to meet, we finally ended up on the tour bus with our guide, Matthew (which he pronounced, sounding more French than Irish, like Matt-ieu), who turned all of the bus lights off and turned on quiet music so we could sleep. Mattieu liked to say the same thing, over and over, in different ways. It took him five minutes to relay one minute of information. Every time he mentioned the cliffs, he would say “And we’ll get you to the Cliffs around 11, cause I know you guys like that.”

There were a few other stops on the trip; one to visit Barack Obama Plaza, home to a Tim Hortons and a few other random food places. We went to Limerick, Doolin, The Burren National Park, Corcomroe Abbey and Kinvara. We spent 20-45 minutes at each stop except Cliffs of Moher, where we were given an hour and a half to play.

The cliffs are about five miles long on the coast of the Atlantic Ocean and reach up to 702 feet tall. I'm sure it wasn't that high when Alex and I popped our heads over the edge of one of the Cliffs, (lying down (Mom, don't freak out!)) but it felt pretty high.


Alex and I took about 1,000 pictures of every little spot on the tour. We fought for premium picture-taking angles and spaces with other travelers (there were 200 people traveling with Irish Day Tours that day), and even got sprayed by waves a few times for getting too close to the edge.




The rest of our class arrived while we were gone on the tour, and we hoped to meet them for dinner. We missed them, but ate like queens at Against the Grain. At the end of our meal, we started talking to two local women who answered our million and one questions about everything. It was my favorite part of the day… that, and the berry cobbler that started our #gimmesumcoblr initiative… in which we seek and eat all the cobblers everywhere.

Dublin Day 3:

This will forever be known as the first day I tried beans on toast.

Beans on toast has never appealed to me. I’ve never been a baked beans person; the runny consistency grosses me out. But, beans on toast is a thing here. People love it. When in Rome, do as the Romans do. When in Dublin, eat beans on toast. I love it.

Just as Alex and I were getting ready to walk leave our room, we heard a key in the door. Sam arrived! The three of us met with the rest of the class. We took a walking tour of The Liberties neighborhood of Dublin, which is where we will be focusing many of our projects for the class.


After class, we went to lunch at Green 19. We ordered salads. Mine was gross. It was butternut squash with a nut mix on field greens with a little bit of cheese. On paper, it looked amazing. In reality, it was kind of oily and wet. The butternut squash was hot and cooked in some kind of oil, so it made the greens soggy and slippery. We ordered a cobbler for dessert, though, and it was real good.

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the hydranchula goes to ireland: part 1

the hyranchula goes to ireland is a series of posts i'll be making during my j term study abroad in dublin, ireland. these posts will look a little different because they will have proper capitalization and pictures because professors like proper capitalization and pictures. please follow me on instagram to see what i'm drinking and eating up to every day.

It was this time last year when I decided I needed a change. I’d spent my first three months in Chicago feeling all the feelings. I was proud of myself for moving away from home; the city made me confident. I was happy making friends with people I really enjoyed being around and exploring the city. I did well in my classes, and I finally felt like I was where I was meant to be. For the first time in a long time, I fit.

But somewhere in between winter break and the Polar Vortex, something changed. I felt like I was stuck in that grey area of time between sunlight and moonlight. Somewhere in that dusk, I lost myself.

So I decided to run away… kind of. It’s a bit difficult to run away from a year-long lease on an apartment, a full-time job and a full-time school schedule, so I compromised my wanderlust for a J Term study abroad.

When I pictured myself in another country, I saw Ireland. Something about the place calls to me. As I kid, I read fiction books about Irish children.  I would sit in my bed until midnight, reading with a flashlight so my parents wouldn’t know I was awake. I liked to pretend that I was one of them, wearing white dresses made grey by the hardships of famines and dirt floors and playing with the pet cat my real parents would never let me have because I was allergic. But in my Irish dreams, I was not.

“I think I’m going to go in Ireland in January,” I said on a Tuesday morning, like I was asking to borrow a pen from someone.

“I’m going to study abroad in Ireland in January,” I told my parents that same night.

“We’re going to Ireland, and you should come!” We screamed in our reporting class to anyone that would listen.

So here I am, months, weeks and days later from the day I bought my ticket to Ireland. Sitting in the same bed I read all of those books in as a kid, so many years later. The bed has moved, and the décor is different. The bed is in an entirely new zip code, with new sheets and different pillows.


But I am the same, and I feel like I’m finally going home to a place I’ve only visited in my dreams.

A few of my (now) packed essentials for the trip: passport, camera, disposable camera, lipstick and wallet, a AAA guide from my mama, my personal journal and a pair of mittens.

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i call bullshit


there is this, in my opinion, irrational idea about “the one.” i used to really believe in the idea of finding one person that was made for me; one person that knew me before they even met me. but now, in the wake of my singleness, i’m calling bullshit on the whole thing.

love is a choice. it takes a lot of work, and it can suck for long periods of time. i look at the relationships i am surrounded by most, and while there is a lot of love and positivity and honestly and respect and compromise, i’m sure there is a heaping pile of shit, past and present, that stinks it up every once in a while.

how do you know you are in love with someone? or, better yet, how do you know that you are going to love someone every single day for the rest of your life? how do you know that you will be able to commit to them? to choose love, even when you don’t want to?

someone once told me to find a man that makes me laugh and is good in bed. she actually said, “find someone who will fuck you hard, because it matters.”

it’s not exactly poetic, but it has justified a few less-than-noteworthy one night stands for me. he wasn’t the one because he was terrible in bed. it was easier than admitting that i failed to connect with someone on any other level, let alone a primal one.

“he isn’t ‘the one.’” i’ve justified too many times to count. or, another favorite, “he’s not ‘mr. right,’ but he is ‘mr. right now.’” seriously, i’m gagging right now.

and what happens when you think you’ve found someone you want to spend a significant amount of time with, but they don’t want that from you? what then? do you ignore what your gut tells you? i mean, if it can identify bad sushi, it can surely tell you when to swing and when to walk away, right?

i interviewed a young married couple for an article i wrote in one of my classes last spring. what they said has really stuck with me. they don’t believe in soul mates either. in fact, they both made pretty good points as to why the ideal of soul mates is a heaping load. what happens if your soul mate lives in another country? or worse, what if they live in your neighborhood, but you never cross paths? imagine that you both frequent the same tea or coffee shop, but at different times of day. THIS PERSON IS YOUR SOULMATE, and you miss them by five minutes every day…

so you end up marrying the person behind the tea counter, because you see them every day and they make you laugh. they may not be your soul mate, but they have a nice smile and you like to talk to them. you marry them because you know them. they may not be your soul mate, but they are present. and you choose to love them, despite the fact that they are not your soul mate. do you know this? or do you regard them as such because you chose them?

do we ever really know?


i guess charlotte had it right when she swore off the idea of having romantic soul mates.